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Tanya & Wendell Berry
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Jake Meador has a wonderful essay up on
Fare Forward, entitled "
Wendell Berry's 'Room for Love'." He cycles through three marriages in Berry's fictional works, and offers reflections on how successful marriages in Berry often resemble the author's agrarian understanding and expansive writings on how to live in harmony with the created world (of which we are a part).
Becoming a good steward of the earth involves learning to live, love, and tend
with the land, not
over or against it. It's about identifying the rhythms of life, health, and beauty already at work in nature, and partnering with it in our human culture-making, through which we create the
stuff and
meaning from the world we inhabit and use (channeling Andy Crouch's thinking on culture here).
And it's not a question of
whether we do this culture-making and use of the world (or our relationships, such as marriage), but
how, which reflects our moral character. Meador isolates what he thinks might be the heart of Berry's vision and purpose for writing as he does, with a quote from
The Gift of Good Land:
“To live, we must daily break the body and shed the blood of Creation. When we do this knowingly, lovingly, skillfully, reverently, it is a sacrament. When we do it ignorantly, greedily, clumsily, destructively, it is a desecration. In such desecration we condemn ourselves to spiritual and moral loneliness, and others to want.”
So it goes in creation, so it goes in marriage.